And what are those you use regularly, those you use seldom and those you would like to experiment but just feel a bit too much?
I, technically, discovered sex toys still as a teen. I’ll leave the details for some other time. A bit embarrassing for the ocasion at hand.
I bought my first real sex toy when I was 18, which was a cock ring. Still my favourite kind of toy to this day. Have several. Then a pocket pussy. I still have a couple of these toys but I get too sensitive, so very seldom they get used.
With my partner I delved into anal play, so butt plugs, anal beads and dildos were added. I also own a cheap cock cage, that my partner does not enjoy me using. I use it occasionally just for my own personal fun.
The toy I’d like to experiment would be urethral sounds but the scare and risk factor overweighs the curiosity.
Hmm, sex was always weird for me. I think I knew of the ‘concept’ of sex toys pretty early on. One of my ‘core memories’ is a friend hitting the play button on a porno of three women, one laying down prone while the other two played with her. My friend kept pointing to the toy they were using on her ass and excitedly describing how her vagina was spreading open because she wanted to have sex. I can’t remember much about the toy, except that it seems hilariously small compared to all the stuff you see nowadays. I think it was off white plastic or something, with a base that reminds me a little (in my memories) of a traffic cone’s base.
‘preteen hormones’ took care of the rest of wanting to know about sex. I stole my friend’s cds that had the porn and tried to watch them when no one was home.
I think the first time I every tried to use a sex toy was the most awkward, lol. I had found a book of my dad’s that I really wasn’t supposed to find (dirty white boys, if I remember it right), and there were some comments about assholes and sex and such that led me to finally look at that area. I had just never actually looked using a mirror or anything, just took the advice about wiping and sort of did my best in the toilet. So after reading this book I found myself crouched on the sink counter in my bathroom, while holding a shaving mirror I had nabbed, all trying to get a look at my asshole… and then I took a pencil I had and pushed it in. Weeeeeeeeell, that led to all sorts of horrors. I discovered enemas accidentally when I used the fancy tub with the jets (and that was not a fun experience the first time when I wasn’t expecting it). I eventually took to using all sorts of random shit: The handles of shower loofahs (thin but wide with ridges for grip), a toilet paper holder than can only be described as serpentine with back and forth S curves (that one was a bad idea), the handle for a massager (it had these wicked spiked balls that connected by a dowel rod through a hold at the end so they could rotate… you remove the balls, and you had a reasonable dildo)…
Damn, looking back at it all now, I was a really ‘wicked’ kid.
I think I discovered my interest in furry porn by the time I was 16 or so, and I dreamed of the bad dragon dildoes for years. I finally was able to afford one, and finally able to buy and keep it hidden, only years later when I had a ‘career’ type job. Picking out the colors and sending the emails to the staff felt like it was so taboo and I had to be a super secret agent about when I got on my computer.
I still have that first bad dragon dildo, a medium unflared chance. It’s a really good dildo. I’ve added some other stuff now that I enjoy, like nipple clamps, a butt plug with a rainbow horse tail, and several other random things. Humorously enough, I only really grabbed onto my current oral fixation in the last two years, so chance and my new dildo, the tentacock (it’s 11 inches, ya’ll, holy shit), get a lot of use in tickling my esophagus.
This was a delight to read.
I used the handle of a hairbrush, also the shower head, it came off and had different settings, some of which felt awfully nice i’d just stand or lay there with it aimed at my pussy lol
The hair brush handle has been a fixture in my imagination since I read a book in my teens where it was mentioned. I’ve even tried to write my own and it always feels… off. But it seems to sensual, so secretive. It is an everyday object, always in plain sight.
The shower head works. I’ve tried it and it can work even for guys.
What did you like more in the end ? The brush or the shower head ?
Well, I was a precocious kid with access to good information, so I had heard of sex toys under other names. Dildoes mainly, as my earliest discovery of such things was in the early eighties and vibrators weren’t a very common thing to see mentioned in books and magazines. They were out there, but hadn’t filtered down into what I had access to. Marital aids was the other term that was used commonly as a blanket phrase to cover everything
But I didn’t see a sex toy until I was maybe ten or eleven. My parents were next door, and I went piddling around the house out of boredom. In the spare room where my mom kept her sewing machine and dresser with bedding, I discovered what I later found out was a gag gift.
It was a double ended dildo. It was thicker than my wrist, and longer than my forearm I wasn’t a tiny lad either. Rough guessing from memory, maybe two inches thick and maybe fourteen inches long. It was some kind of rubber, probably latex.
This was an enlightening find. I had seen pictures of naked women, including fairly explicit “beaver shots” as they got called. So, to my naive mind, this toy must be of a size that women liked, or why would my mom have it? But how in the hell would that thing go into a vagina?!
Obviously, such toys are actually used sometimes. But at the time, I was unaware of the amazing elasticity of the vagina, despite being aware babies came out of them.
Mind
Blown
Years later, when helping my mom move some stuff, we came across it. That’s when she disclosed it had been a gag gift and never actually used. She had forgotten it was even there.
Funny how so many life changing discoveries are made by pure chance.
I was a bit of a late bloomer for sex toys, always thought they were for couples who couldn’t have decent sex anymore. Boy was I wrong, what started as a joke christmas present for a partner turned our sex life from a 10 to a 20 the first time we used a magic wand together
I don’t remember where I first learned of sex toys, but I do remember already knowing what they were when my younger brother found a dildo buried in the dirt in a field behind our house (he didn’t know what it was for but knew it was a big fat dick and thought it was hilarious).
I bought my first few toys when I turned 18. Got even more than I expected since the place I bought from also threw in HELLA random extras like lube, condoms, and more toys.
The only thing I really use regularly is the Bad Dragon “Chance” dildo I originally bought as a joke. But, then one day I actually used it and now I am a size queen 🤷♂️
Which size did you get for the chance? And was it the flared/unflared one, and before they changed the design a few years ago? I’ve always wanted to get someone’s opinion on the differences.
I’ve always wondered whether to call my self a size queen. I really, really love the sensation of being knotted, but that’s like the end, I’m going to orgasm moment. I don’t want that big ole thing pumping in and out of me, just locking me to my partner.
I’m definitely a length queen when it comes to giving oral though. Gimme that foot long, babe! (and maybe just once let me experiment with jalapeno juice on it <.<)
It’s large, unflared. I didn’t realize there was a design change. I’ve had it for like… 10 years now? 🤔 It’s pretty old.
I originally just bought a cock ring out of curiosity. Oddly enough, I seem to cum faster when I have one on, so I don’t really use them.
Heightened sensitivity, perhaps? Prolongued foreplay, while using one, does that to me. I enjoy it but it takes an extra degree of restraint to not finish before I really want to.
I feel like I’ve been aware of them for so long I can’t say where from in any specific way other than “media” lol
Anywho, I have dildos, vibrators, chastity cages, handcuffs, anklecuffs, gags, blindfolds, ropes… it’s really a rather long list :3
My least used one is probably rope, just cause it takes a lot of setup time, and in terms of what I want to try one thing im curious about is electric stimulation toys :3
My most used one is definitely chastity cages uwu
Did you ever wear the chastity cage while outside? I have been thinking about buying one for a while.
I have worn one 24/7 a few times :3
I’ve had involuntary electric stimulation in the course of a long series of physical therapy on my lower back. They warned me I could feel some unusual “side effects”. I didn’t orgasm. But it felt really good and left me with a serious erection that my partner had to “endure” with.
When me and my sister were kids (around 13 and 11 respectively) found what we now agree was our parent’s toy box. We were alone at home and looking for something to do and went into our parent’s room to look for an old camera my dad have to record something outside. We looked under the bed and found a wooden box we’ve never seen before. We looked inside and there was a classic white dildo (not that big), some porn magazines, a lot of condoms and a bottle of what now I assume was lube or at least rubbing oil for massages.
Hmmm… Not sure if username doesn’t check out 🤔
lol
Pretty tame, for all accounts.



