And what are those you use regularly, those you use seldom and those you would like to experiment but just feel a bit too much?

I, technically, discovered sex toys still as a teen. I’ll leave the details for some other time. A bit embarrassing for the ocasion at hand.

I bought my first real sex toy when I was 18, which was a cock ring. Still my favourite kind of toy to this day. Have several. Then a pocket pussy. I still have a couple of these toys but I get too sensitive, so very seldom they get used.

With my partner I delved into anal play, so butt plugs, anal beads and dildos were added. I also own a cheap cock cage, that my partner does not enjoy me using. I use it occasionally just for my own personal fun.

The toy I’d like to experiment would be urethral sounds but the scare and risk factor overweighs the curiosity.

  • edwardrotik@fedinsfw.appEnglish
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    2 days ago

    Well, I was a precocious kid with access to good information, so I had heard of sex toys under other names. Dildoes mainly, as my earliest discovery of such things was in the early eighties and vibrators weren’t a very common thing to see mentioned in books and magazines. They were out there, but hadn’t filtered down into what I had access to. Marital aids was the other term that was used commonly as a blanket phrase to cover everything

    But I didn’t see a sex toy until I was maybe ten or eleven. My parents were next door, and I went piddling around the house out of boredom. In the spare room where my mom kept her sewing machine and dresser with bedding, I discovered what I later found out was a gag gift.

    It was a double ended dildo. It was thicker than my wrist, and longer than my forearm I wasn’t a tiny lad either. Rough guessing from memory, maybe two inches thick and maybe fourteen inches long. It was some kind of rubber, probably latex.

    This was an enlightening find. I had seen pictures of naked women, including fairly explicit “beaver shots” as they got called. So, to my naive mind, this toy must be of a size that women liked, or why would my mom have it? But how in the hell would that thing go into a vagina?!

    Obviously, such toys are actually used sometimes. But at the time, I was unaware of the amazing elasticity of the vagina, despite being aware babies came out of them.

    Mind

    Blown

    Years later, when helping my mom move some stuff, we came across it. That’s when she disclosed it had been a gag gift and never actually used. She had forgotten it was even there.