• jtrek@startrek.website
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    2 days ago

    That depends on the app. On hinge, you can (and should) send a message with your like.

    On tinder and close relatives, you can only work on your profile.

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      2 days ago

      Bumble matches you, but only women can send first! So even if you match, you can’t chat lol.

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        2 days ago

        True. I had a very poor experience on bumble, where I didn’t get many interactions. Not being able to message first I think takes away one of my few advantages.