Day something or other, I can’t remember but we’re, doing well!
Do you feel you have to have an orgasm to feel like you’ve had sex? Sometimes it can be difficult to orgasm for different reasons, but would you say you have to have an orgasm in order to feel completed?
I’m less into orgasms, and more seeking a certain kind of headspace. I don’t really orgasm from penetration and I don’t like receiving oral or being played with that much. But there is a sort of psychological pleasure stage that is like a non physical orgasm, which can have different senses to it depending on the partner and the activity.
I think the last time I really got there, a guy pissed on me and then fucked me raw afterwards. Versus having two guys take turns on me hooded and tied. Degradation in the first versus just being an object in the second.
Such an interesting take. Its like your describing an orgasm of the mind instead of the body. Id like to know how that feels one day
Depends on the partner. I’ve been with a few partners that for one reason or another (medication, hormones) have been unable to orgasm easily, and I’ve been with a few partners that orgasm really easily.
If I’m with the first cohort, I just want to make sure they have a good time. If I’m with the second cohort I’m going for a high score.
The O is just the cherry on top.
It’s always nice to finish, but would you say it was essential
Day 12 ;3
Anywhos, I have an orgasm denial kink, so no uwu
Well someone’s keeping count, 'preciate it.
How long can you normally be denied for?
Well if I ever find that time limit I’ll let ya know :3
I spent the entirety of 2024 without a single orgasm. No masturbation nor sex. Teased myself often by using a cock cage, walking outside naked, etc. At some point something just broke inside me and my desire just went away. Even today I can easily go for weeks without an orgasm and no erections.
i would say not even just once, but at least a couple times… but it seens like i orgasm really easily, relatively speaking. it takes probably in the 20s to really feel satisfied, but i wouldn’t necessarily expect that out of a partner
Like you said its all relative, if you cum really easy 20s isn’t the farfetched number it first sounds. Can you cum multiple ways or just clitoral/vaginally?
Also, does your body ache after a good session?
I’m can’t really consider myself an expert, but I don’t think coming to orgasm is a necessary part of sex. There are lots of different kinds of sex.
Yes, but not always. Sometimes everything is so fun that if I don’t get there I don’t mind and I feel equally satisfied.
Not have to, but it’s still kind of the goal to have one or most often several orgasms in the process :)
I’m lucky enough to have a very, very shirt refractory period (sometimes none at all, and keep going) so multiple orgasms are always fun
