Day something or other, I can’t remember but we’re, doing well!
Do you feel you have to have an orgasm to feel like you’ve had sex? Sometimes it can be difficult to orgasm for different reasons, but would you say you have to have an orgasm in order to feel completed?
I’m less into orgasms, and more seeking a certain kind of headspace. I don’t really orgasm from penetration and I don’t like receiving oral or being played with that much. But there is a sort of psychological pleasure stage that is like a non physical orgasm, which can have different senses to it depending on the partner and the activity.
I think the last time I really got there, a guy pissed on me and then fucked me raw afterwards. Versus having two guys take turns on me hooded and tied. Degradation in the first versus just being an object in the second.
Such an interesting take. Its like your describing an orgasm of the mind instead of the body. Id like to know how that feels one day