E.g a crush on a teacher, someone much older than you, a coworker, maybe even a cousin? A friends’ significant other?

Go into as much or as little detail as you like.

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    A few. I’d say that a huge part of my becoming an adult was a moment in college when I felt one developing, and I said to myself “Come on, man, what are you doing? Are you going to add to the list of people that you’ve been pining over since high school? You’ve got to let that go.”

    It didn’t make the attraction go away, but actively working against my own unattainable crush subroutine helped me not carry around the feelings of angst and unresolved desire so much. I haven’t really developed another one since those days.

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    A girl in HS. I was OBSESSED with her. We talked a few times but that was it. Even during college I used to wonder what could have been.

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    It wasn’t exactly unobtainable, but my stepsister did intentionally get naked so I could look at her several times before her mom caught us.

    For context, we were like 12 when our parents got married, and both hit puberty around the same time. Nothing more than that ever happened, though.

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    To list a few myself: I’ve only had very minor ones here and there through my teenage years, such as:

    • a Cousin who looks like Alexandra Daddario. Need i say more. Luckily a very fleeting one.
    • A milfy english teacher with heavy round boobs and really thick thighs. She was actually already married/dating an ex-student of hers, apparently. My grades skyrocketed in her class.
    • As an adult, I wanted to have a threesome with a friends girlfriend, but i know that neither of them would be into that.
    • Superior at my first job who had beautiful brown skin and wore sundresses a lot. Married.
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      A little red head, and I do mean tiny, when I was in high school. She stirred something in me I was never able to understand. We never even spoke to each other.

      One of my father’s “girlfriends”. Older woman, even older than the man she was dating. Very cool, very down to earth, very sexy. She must have suspected about something as she enjoyed pushing my head against her cleavage when she could get away with it.

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        She must have suspected about something as she enjoyed pushing my head against her cleavage when she could get away with it.

        Fr?? I think that’s about the biggest sign you could get

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          My father was getting in the woman’s panties! That was complicated enough.

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      And also on one of my english teachers once

      Right? Always the english teachers, isn’t it. I swear one of them was trying to trying to give me signals once.

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        I mean, she was the 2nd youngest teacher I had. Most of the others were old… and also she always wore her hair in a messy bun which is my secret weakness x3

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          I could honestly make a whole post in celebration of my countless hot high school teachers but i don’t know if other people would like that.

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            If it’s a post you want to make I think you should do it. Some people will like it, some won’t, it’s like that with everything ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

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    My bosses daughter. She’s not my typical type, probably the opposite. But there’s just something about her, and our chemistry is electric