E.g a crush on a teacher, someone much older than you, a coworker, maybe even a cousin? A friends’ significant other?

Go into as much or as little detail as you like.

  • GraniteM@lemmy.world
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    10 days ago

    A few. I’d say that a huge part of my becoming an adult was a moment in college when I felt one developing, and I said to myself “Come on, man, what are you doing? Are you going to add to the list of people that you’ve been pining over since high school? You’ve got to let that go.”

    It didn’t make the attraction go away, but actively working against my own unattainable crush subroutine helped me not carry around the feelings of angst and unresolved desire so much. I haven’t really developed another one since those days.

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      A little red head, and I do mean tiny, when I was in high school. She stirred something in me I was never able to understand. We never even spoke to each other.

      One of my father’s “girlfriends”. Older woman, even older than the man she was dating. Very cool, very down to earth, very sexy. She must have suspected about something as she enjoyed pushing my head against her cleavage when she could get away with it.

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    It wasn’t exactly unobtainable, but my stepsister did intentionally get naked so I could look at her several times before her mom caught us.

    For context, we were like 12 when our parents got married, and both hit puberty around the same time. Nothing more than that ever happened, though.

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    My bosses daughter. She’s not my typical type, probably the opposite. But there’s just something about her, and our chemistry is electric

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    9 days ago

    A girl in HS. I was OBSESSED with her. We talked a few times but that was it. Even during college I used to wonder what could have been.

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    One of my teachers in school. She was a gorgeous redhead and I wanted to have sex with her so bad. I came so many times imagining her making me stay behind after school to fuck her over her desk.