
It wasn’t exactly unobtainable, but my stepsister did intentionally get naked so I could look at her several times before her mom caught us.
For context, we were like 12 when our parents got married, and both hit puberty around the same time. Nothing more than that ever happened, though.


Honestly? Enthusiastic consent. I can overlook physical features that might not be my favorite if she’s enthusiastic and direct about what she wants in bed.
My wife is on the spectrum, so unfortunately while I know she is enthusiastically consenting in her own way, from an outside perspective it would seem like she’s not at all into it.
Her version of enthusiastic consent is, “if I didn’t want to do it, I wouldn’t.” Which is fair, although it does cause me some anxiety. And yes, we’ve talked about it and she’s working on being more obvious about it.