We can all get as deep as want (Heh) about sexuality and what it means to us, so let’s get a little bit more basic this time.
What turns you on the most about your people of interest?
A big veiny dick? Heavy breasts? A slim figure? A big dominant man, rippling muscles and a square jaw? An hourglass figure with curves that water would just slip off?
I love, and I mean love, a natural ‘mom bod’. Lines, lumps, stretch marks, breasts that dangle when bent over, an ass that ripples when spanked or hammered against. A love pouch to rest my head while my fingers get to work. It’s what gets me going. Pair that with a submissive attitude and I’m in heaven
How bout you?
Honestly? Enthusiastic consent. I can overlook physical features that might not be my favorite if she’s enthusiastic and direct about what she wants in bed.
My wife is on the spectrum, so unfortunately while I know she is enthusiastically consenting in her own way, from an outside perspective it would seem like she’s not at all into it.
Her version of enthusiastic consent is, “if I didn’t want to do it, I wouldn’t.” Which is fair, although it does cause me some anxiety. And yes, we’ve talked about it and she’s working on being more obvious about it.
I think this sums it up for me as well… as long as I can stand being in the same room with them, if they are enthusiastic and want me, I’m going to want them, it’s inevitable.