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1 day agoI’ve been poly for almost 5-6 years now and I do better than most, but nowhere near as well as women.
I have some women friends who see several men a night.
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I’ve been poly for almost 5-6 years now and I do better than most, but nowhere near as well as women.
I have some women friends who see several men a night.
I’m mid 40s and have a stable job. Hair is full but a bit heavier since my 20s.
What I’ve learned is that most women that I end up dating are usually looking for consistency and not being an asshole. Having a decent personality helps as well.
I’m in competition with a lot of conservative men. If I can’t win against them, I should look inward.