What kinds of things do you feel comfortable or uncomfortable saying?
I’m a big fan of being on the receiving end, but sometimes I get a little uncomfortable. I had a partner who I know started believing what he was saying near the end of the relationship, and blurring those boundaries really messed with my head.
I’m a big fan of being told that I’m not intelligent - “dumb slut” etc - because I know that I am actually smarter than most of my sexual partners IRL but like to be a brainless fuck toy during the act.
I’m a huge fan. My partner likes degradation crossed with praise. So slut or other insults used as pet names in praise or saying I’m so proud of them for how good they are at degrading/humiliating themself.
On my end I am a pleasure/service dom, and when they get more aroused as I get meaner or dip back and forth from a little embarassed to really turned on I am in heaven