What kinds of things do you feel comfortable or uncomfortable saying?

I’m a big fan of being on the receiving end, but sometimes I get a little uncomfortable. I had a partner who I know started believing what he was saying near the end of the relationship, and blurring those boundaries really messed with my head.

I’m a big fan of being told that I’m not intelligent - “dumb slut” etc - because I know that I am actually smarter than most of my sexual partners IRL but like to be a brainless fuck toy during the act.

  • tiedigger@fedinsfw.appEnglish
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    10 days ago

    Hm I mean it is alot about what my partner finds ok and what is not against the law.

    Humiliation for example is not necessarily verbal and can be very much physical too. Physical humiliation is often a lot more mood dependent than verbal humiliation.

    Mostly I just dont like screaming at someone in a session because it agitats me which I dislike. For words the self I don’t rly have a no-go list.

    For likes I kinda like fucktoy because it’s short and kinda easy to use.

    • freeusething@fedinsfw.appOPEnglish
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      10 days ago

      What do you think of as physical humiliation? I think about things like being pissed or ejaculated on, outfits (eg, force femme), or body writing.

      • tiedigger@fedinsfw.appEnglish
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        8 days ago

        Well yeah but it can be a lot more like forced or unpleasant/awkward positions. Or being “manhandled” or better being made aware of being bodily inferior. Or having to wear stuff that reduces your body functions like Chasity cages/belts or beeing collared in public. That’s just from the top of my head like I said humiliation is pretty personal so what isn’t humiliating for one person can be very humiliating for someone else.