What kinds of things do you feel comfortable or uncomfortable saying?

I’m a big fan of being on the receiving end, but sometimes I get a little uncomfortable. I had a partner who I know started believing what he was saying near the end of the relationship, and blurring those boundaries really messed with my head.

I’m a big fan of being told that I’m not intelligent - “dumb slut” etc - because I know that I am actually smarter than most of my sexual partners IRL but like to be a brainless fuck toy during the act.

  • SmuttyLad@fedinsfw.appMEnglish
    4·
    13 days ago

    Nope. For me, degradation is an absolute turn off.

    What I do like is horny neediness though. Foreplay/teasing and turning my partner on to the point where she asks for/wants/begs/demands escalation.

    • solar@fedinsfw.appEnglish
      2·
      13 days ago

      I think this is pretty much it for me too. Other than that its much more about praising each other and being very open about how much we love the others body, so a lot of compliments