I noticed that outside Gonewild, people just don’t post or react. There’s a few goony comments, and half-assed teases, and that’s it.

You can’t get any engagement, not even a no. I noticed it’s everyone that gets no interaction.

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    Honestly that sounds fine, joke flirts is how you check if you’re vibing with someone. The horror stories are valid, there are genuine creeps out there of course. But the people who take that advice to heart usually are the good eggs and not the creeps 🤷 the cold hard truth is that nine out of ten women(minimum) aren’t gonna make the first move. If someone is atleast joke flirting with you, you can def try to talk to them in private.

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      Some are friendly, In don’t want to get labeled needlessly.

      As a matter of fact, friends. All the better for me :p

      But I would not ruin a friendship by beeing a creepo.

      They rarely flirt much. Was very interesting though.

      I was in a situation where a woman politely declined pics (she I think is busy trying to get with someone).

      But gave me advice. That was very nice. She is very smart, and knows how to push buttons. I respect that.

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        Exactly, any woman worth talking to will be able to just politely decline it. It’s your decision though. I’m just saying that saying DMs open personally got me 0 results 🤭 Also of course I’m not suggesting you to do it with “regular” friends. I have friends I am sexually open to and others I’m not 🤷 I think it makes sense.