Are you going at it every night? Can you do with less than once per week?
I can get by with once a week, but I’d be actually satisfied with multiple times a day.
All of the times! It’s never enough so I supplement with gooning. Most people cant keep up with me.
Has there ever been a time in life when youve actually felt satisfied?
For a few hours yeah
Depends a lot on a whole lot of things, but the ideal is certainly more than 3x/week.
I can do less than once per week, but that would leave me horny to the point that it gets distracting, barring finding other outlets or being stressed/depressed/tired.
I’m usually more concerned with quality over quantity. Ideally once or twice a week, more if we’re really going at it, but if my partner is only in the mood every once in a while, I’m still happy.
Twice a day.
I find myself in a place where my mind lusts a lot but my body only reacts to my partner and as my partner has a health condition that severily conditions her availabilty to sensuality, I live in a constant strange limbo.
Once to twice a day would be great, but I don’t often have the energy. In my 20s, it was more like “there’s a cap?”
Dated a nympho in high school. I learned I only liked having so much sex and how uncomfortable it is being pressured into sex when you’re not in the mood. I thought it’d be awesome before that. Maybe if we were just friends with benefits the dynamic could’ve worked out but I’m a hopeless romantic. Not good at casual stuff.
I think at least twice a day.
If life was perfect and other activities weren’t around (that are just as much fun and fulfilling) then up to three times a day would be amazing. Maybe more. Day to day would be lounging around and cuddling and generally exploring the nature of time in small traces of fingertips on skin.
I’m on a long dry streak though, because I’m in an area dominated by conservative assholes, and I’m really not the type to go to bars or other hookup type spots (I’m a romantic [and very slow in relationships] and shy and generally paranoid, sue me) in the one small queer area that exists. Way too concerned that people in that area are getting scoped out and tracked now. So, tangent aside, I can obviously do with way less than once per week. I think I’d be happy if a partner was generally up for two or three times per week of actual sex, but massages and cuddling are daily mandatory events. I like to touch and be touched.
Edit: plus, the ‘quality’ of the sexual activity will matter greatly. As much as I love choking on someone’s horse-sized phallus, I doubt I could keep up with that multiple times a day. I’m pretty sure my dentist has commented without commenting directly on it, asking about some bruising. Boy howdy, was that a surprise. Same with the cunnilingus: my face and tongue just can’t keep up; it is incredibly tiring and induces sore muscles like nobody’s business.
I’d be good with 1-2 times a week. The kinkier the better.
Late 20s male. For me at least twice to be satisfied. I usually don’t get fully ramped up again until 1-3 days. Of course I’m always down for more but I’m satisfied with it once or twice a week.
