Inspired by a conversation with another Lemmitor, how rough is too rough for you?
Bondage, binding, impact play or is a little hair pulling and a spank you’re limit?
Of course, everyone has different limits, and everything should be discussed and consented too beforehand and there’s no such thing as too little or too much when all parties are consenting and agreed upon.
Also, we made it to day 7!
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anything that draws blood or causes a permanent mark/injury is off-limits for me
It depends mostly on the mood, usually I’m not a fan of marks that last more than a couple hours, I could be persuaded to provide or receive them but I would need some convincing, specially to provide them.
The only time I’ve actually cum from vaginal penetration, or really experienced an orgasm from something someone else has done to me was from being flogged to the point of bleeding in a fucking machine at maximum speed while being choked.
It really depends on a bunch of factors. The person giving me the pain has to enjoy it, has to help me get to the appropriate headspace and also has to know how to administer pain in a way that I can trust they know what they are doing. I had a dom for many years that refused to do warmups, and that just sucked all the time.
I’ve been penetrated vaginally with knives and wartenberg wheels. I’ve invited men over to misgender me, choke me with a belt, piss on me, beat me until I bruised and bled… but they start with showing me that they know how to flog properly (watch for backsplash and kidney hits) and work up from there.
But I also hate receiving oral sex, biting, and anal. Those are all “too rough” for me.
I’ve been described in the past as a ‘pleasure dom’ and I think that sums me up perfectly. Do I enjoy administrating pain to a crying sub? Fuck yes. Is that what it it’s all about? No.
It’s about both parties getting maximum pleasure from an act that most of society would be appaled by, and that means a good long conversation before hand, laying the ground work for what a sub is looking for and what they enjoy, do your partner who didn’t do ‘warm ups’ as you put it, when that’s what you want, doesn’t make sense to me. To me, it’s a deeply intimate thing when a woman allows me use of her body and mind for sexual gratification, and should be appreciated.
Love the username, by the way 👌
No scars please. But if I shed no tears it wasn’t a proper spanking
I don’t like serious pain, like blood and torture type play, but I like spanks that hurt, getting slapped in the face, and pretty much not limit to how rough a man is inside me. getting carry fucked by two guys is probably the roughest I’ve gotten it, I mean that and the whole session. 10/10
Face slapping can be an absolutely beautiful thing when done right. The red cheeks, the tears, the look of submitting in someone’s eyes.
fuck yeah, I’m into cnc, idk if I’m the best actor but I love getting facefucked until I tear up and just run with that 😂
I’ve had three very successful cnc sessions, one in a pub toilet that I still think about regularly. It’s one of those kinks people judge you for, but I am what I am
I think men get judged more cuz there’s a lot of rapists tbh lol. But almost everyone I’ve done it with were actually pretty sweet guys, like I wouldn’t have expected. I only get judged when there’s two cocks in me and they call me names but I feel like that doesn’t count
Just something about two men having a whole conversation about you like you’re not even there while they’re both fucking you? Talking about how your holes feel, laughing at your reactions as they plow you, agreeing with one another how they’re gonna use you next, where they’re gonna cum, calling you names while they’re absolutely revelling in being buried balls deep inside of you
Oh definitely, some people see it as a pass to do what the fuck you want, and those people are called dicks. In my opinion, the sub should always be in control with how far if goes with safe words and communication before hand. I’d never lay a, hand on a woman in anger or entitlement. But with consent I’d choke you, slap the shit out of you, and force a load down your throat while your eyes run with tears and you fight for breath 🤷🏻♂️
Oh all of those have immediate consent. thats the shit that gets me so fcking wet. I love trying to pull back but im not even close to strong enough so I just gag and swallow the best i can <3
Well, reading all your responses literally has my cock throbbing
About the most I’d give would be some medium spanking and light hair pulling. Couldn’t bring myself to treat a women to harsher than that
My limits are hairpulling and choking :3 other than that spanking, bondage, and knives are all still on the table lol
I’ve never played with knives, I turned down the opportunity when it was offered just incase but it is intriguing.
Choking when done right can be amazing, both receiving and giving, but I can totally understand why it’s a limit for a lot of people
Choking is extremely dangerous, and it’s important that anyone who wants to do it really really really reads up on how to do it “safely” (you are not eliminating risk.)
It’s just so weird how it’s almost normalized in sex, when it’s far more dangerous than spanking, whipping, flogging, piercing, fire play, cupping, bondage, blood play, cold branding, electro……
It’s sorta like intox in that the most harmful “kinky” sexual practices seem to be mainstream (look at mainstream porn)
