Inspired by a conversation with another Lemmitor, how rough is too rough for you?

Bondage, binding, impact play or is a little hair pulling and a spank you’re limit?

Of course, everyone has different limits, and everything should be discussed and consented too beforehand and there’s no such thing as too little or too much when all parties are consenting and agreed upon.

Also, we made it to day 7!

  • freeusething@fedinsfw.appEnglish
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    1 month ago

    The only time I’ve actually cum from vaginal penetration, or really experienced an orgasm from something someone else has done to me was from being flogged to the point of bleeding in a fucking machine at maximum speed while being choked.

    It really depends on a bunch of factors. The person giving me the pain has to enjoy it, has to help me get to the appropriate headspace and also has to know how to administer pain in a way that I can trust they know what they are doing. I had a dom for many years that refused to do warmups, and that just sucked all the time.

    I’ve been penetrated vaginally with knives and wartenberg wheels. I’ve invited men over to misgender me, choke me with a belt, piss on me, beat me until I bruised and bled… but they start with showing me that they know how to flog properly (watch for backsplash and kidney hits) and work up from there.

    But I also hate receiving oral sex, biting, and anal. Those are all “too rough” for me.

    • CapOnBackwards@fedinsfw.appOPEnglish
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      1 month ago

      I’ve been described in the past as a ‘pleasure dom’ and I think that sums me up perfectly. Do I enjoy administrating pain to a crying sub? Fuck yes. Is that what it it’s all about? No.

      It’s about both parties getting maximum pleasure from an act that most of society would be appaled by, and that means a good long conversation before hand, laying the ground work for what a sub is looking for and what they enjoy, do your partner who didn’t do ‘warm ups’ as you put it, when that’s what you want, doesn’t make sense to me. To me, it’s a deeply intimate thing when a woman allows me use of her body and mind for sexual gratification, and should be appreciated.

      Love the username, by the way 👌