Do you have any hard no’s that are absolutely off limit?
My main three would be anything scat related, diaper play and age play. No disrespect to anyone into that, but they are definitely hard nos for me.
How about you?
Diapers, “adult babies”, scat, vomit those are the hardest no’s I have.
No hitting, no blood, no shit, no puke, no children, no rape (not even pretend rape).
Everything else is on the table.
Choking, hair pulling, sounding, and anything with the word prolapse in it… I don’t have that many off the top of my head tbh, but those ones definitely
The word prolapse is such an off putting word. Instant deflation
I knew someone who was into that, which was… Something
But it’s something that makes me cringe (in the literal sense, not the internet one)
Hair pulling is off limits? I guess it hurts too much?
I don’t mind painful kinks tbh, but just something about the sensation of hair pulling I don’t like. Even if someone would grab a large enough bunch of hair and don’t pull hard enough to be painful lol. I just hate it :3
“Gross kink” stuff. Sweaty feet, sweaty armpits, unwashed panties, etc. If you put your smelly feet near my face, I might throw up. I will definitely not have sex with you.
Rape fantasies are a big no for me. Lost a relationship because I refused to rape her.
She should have just said she wanted rough sex while tied up. Would have worked better right?
Absolutely, but she wanted the full home invasion rape scenario. Sneak in, come up behind her, do a choke hold and drag her into the bedroom while she kicked and screamed, etc. With no safe word.
And it’s not like she was sexually assaulted and wanted to re-experience her trauma in a setting she had more control over.
Adding on to what I already see commented:
- fisting (me OR them)
- smegma (was on a second date with a man and he legit whispered in my ear at the bar “I haven’t washed him since we last went out, it’s like prelube” and implied I needed to do it for him… NOOOOOOOO… BARF BARF BARF… I literally turned green and he tried to play it off as a joke but I was out… jesus just thinking about it is making me queasy)
- anything without consent
- pegging
- open relationships
- swallowing (I’ve tried, I literally puked, never need to do it again thanks)
Jesus Christ, that Smegma bit turned my stomach. Like… What? Who in their right mind…
I have no idea how people develop the fetishes they do, but it was vile lol
I mean don’t get me wrong, I don’t judge people for what they like, god knows I’ve been judged before for some of the stuff I’m into. But that. That deserves to be judged 😂
The rest make sense to me, but why pegging? Is it where the action is taking place?
No I have no problem with the area. I tried in the past and it just emasculated my then-partner in my mind. I very much did not like anything about it.
Most of what others have said in this thread, but I’d add the two that just make me think humanity is doomed: findom and slavery (we’re talking ‘permanent,’ where you aren’t doing it just for a day or two over the weekend) as a kink. When you go from the level of kinky fetish to living it as a lifestyle, there just seems to be something broken with that mentality.
Findom?
‘Financial Domination.’ It’s a concept just begging for you to be scammed. Bad enough in person, and like trying to contain hell with a pentagram made of silly string on the internet.
Like, someone taking control of you through your finances?
Fuck. That.
