Yeah I might be fishing for ideas 🤧

But I think I need to break out of just writing stuff I want to read, so I’d like to hear what people are generally into

  • Pm_us_kinky_comments@fedinsfw.app
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    Personally, we like “realistic” erotica, centered on established relationships of plausibly realistic people. Simply put, we like to read about people easy to identify with, perhaps just a bit spicier than we are ourselves :)

    Also, we dislike the other end of the spectrum, like over indulging romance where it takes endless pages before the littlest bit of sex. We hope this is an okay answer to your question, and we’re here if you want anymore info :)

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    I like fantasy and sci-fi, and in erotica I like that to be part of the sex: a spell that makes you cum, or makes you horny, or enhances your body. Or a potion. Or a machine or serum.

    There’s a lot of good non-con angles there if you’re into that, which let you explore a conflict between non-consent and enjoyment, or consent with an awareness that the character’s unaffected mind would not have consented.

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    I’m honestly disappointed if there is no anal, as I clearly have a fetish there. And I like “alternative world” scenarios.

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    A fellow writer? Good to meet you.

    And, please, don’t. Keep writing what you enjoy. It makes things easier because you’re in a field where you are at ease. You are your first reader; of you don’t like it, it is meaningless.

    On to your question.

    Anything can be erotic if well written. I’m not into BDSM and yet the Story of O managed to make me finish the book in one sitting. Vulgarity and banal words are always a complete turn off. Being graphical is good, being to graphical veers into porn

    Particular themes/motifs/fetishes I enjoy reading and writing, first and foremost, is plain romance. Just two people falling in love or starting from plain old lust and carrying things forward from there. But I need story, plot, background; sex for sex is a let down.

    I also prefer strong minded, independent, female characters and stoic or a bit aloof male characters.

    Fetishes per se, I enjoy outdoors sex, body worshipping (can go both ways), tit jobs, oral and masturbation (hand and foot). Non D/s chastity, for both genders. Pegging. Sex in the shower, by the pool or at the beach, either by the sea or a river or lake. And weirdly enough, writing on the skin. Not tattooes; writing with a brush or a pen.

    And I stop here.

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        I had one or two things posted on the old LemmyNSFW but it was getting so swamped with AI generated content that I lost interest.

        The communities geared towards writen erotica also felt quite dead, so it doesn’t really add as an incentive.

        If things were a bit different here, I might consider it.

        Although my latest projects have been little more than stylized porn.

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    BDSM

    Dark

    Lesbian

    I also write myself. Please check my profile.

    You got anything you want to share ?