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Cake day: June 7th, 2023

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  • I suck at any kind of public speaking.

    That said, I went on stage and made a speech. Strong enough voice (I’m a teacher) but my hands were shaking like mad.

    Past week, more speeches to parents. First speech I’m pretty nervous.

    Second, third, fourth…

    By this time, I hold a piece of paper up to the parents. Not a single tremor or shiver in the paper.

    This is because I don’t think of my issues with public speaking as failure. That’s just me. I already accepted that’s how I react to situations like that.

    If my parent ever told me my shaking was failure, do you truly think that my mindset that doesn’t attribute my ‘shakes’ to failure would be the case now?

    Keep any shortcomings personal, to them. As a parent, always see the positive. Never weigh your own child down like that.

    You sound like a teenager but I figure it’s worthwhile sharing my aspect with the adults here.