This is open to both sides of the equation. Side one, when you’re out and about do you secretly hope that maybe you’ll catch a glimpse of a bulging crotch or visible nips? Side two, if you go out in something that does show off your pokeys or bulge, how does it feel to catch someone trying to get a look? Thank you for all responses

  • Big_Boss_77@fedinsfw.appEnglish
    12·
    5 days ago

    I always enjoy seeing them out in the wild… like seeing a majestic animal or a beautiful sunrise. You can look at pictures of them all day, but being there and seeing it for yourself is always a hundred times better.

    • Lemmyseeplease@lemmy.worldOPEnglish
      5·
      5 days ago

      This guy gets it. The organic and real nature makes so much better. The taboo of seeing an intimate outline of a stranger is thrilling.

    • itsjustjill@fedinsfw.appEnglish
      1·
      1 day ago

      this right here! a nice camel toe is such a treat! also a bulge fan as well. when i was younger and went to clubs all gothed out, I loved getting checked out. doesn’t happen much anymore though.

    • Lemmyseeplease@lemmy.worldOPEnglish
      3·
      5 days ago

      Going classic with the cameltoe. I like it. I love the pokeys quite a bit. A little window into what’s underneath. Thank you for commenting.

  • imadethis@fedinsfw.appEnglish
    3·
    4 days ago

    If I go out in something, oh yes, please look at me. Tell me I’m [adjective] (and not be creepy about it) and I’ll be simpering for the rest of the night. If I’m at work though, or at some sort of social event where I’m ‘trapped,’ then oh god don’t.

    As for looking? I typically am not seeking it out, but when someone stretches just right? Oh boy oh boy, that’s a delight. Let me see muscles strain beneath, nipples and breasts outlined by a tight fitting shirt, the outline of a juicy penis trapped against the leg as it twitches with the motion…

  • yarrow@fedinsfw.appEnglish
    5·
    5 days ago

    i think i am mostly too off in my own world to be on the lookout for such things tbh. something has to be very close in my field of view for me to notice 😅

    and on the flipside while i don’t bother to wear bras i also don’t think anyone is paying attention to whatever is happening down my shirt (but that may be the off in my own world thing again, i am super oblivious and my default is to assume i am not being perceived at all)

    • Lemmyseeplease@lemmy.worldOPEnglish
      4·
      5 days ago

      I love the self awareness in this post. I can see you just ambling through the world with all sorts of chaos and destruction around you and not even noticing. Lol. If you’re going out without a bra, I can guarantee you somebody is trying to sneak a peek. Either at your pointy nips or down your shirt. Thank you for the comment.

      • yarrow@fedinsfw.appEnglish
        5·
        5 days ago

        well if you are right and someone is looking, i hope they have a happy viewing experience even if i am too busy daydreaming to notice them!

  • tantricgooner@fedinsfw.appEnglish
    5·
    5 days ago

    I don’t really care for slightly visible nips and I certainly don’t look for it 🤭 As for the bulges, only thing that crosses my mind is to check that mine don’t look too sus lol.

    Anyway, the hard nipples thing is a interesting concept to think about, I remember seeing a post on reddit about it. How in TV shows you’d use to see chicks with hard nipples constantly and boomers would reminisce in the comments how that’s their sexual awakening moment and stuff like that. It makes sense considering the times they grew up in and it also makes sense that nowadays it doesn’t really have much of an impact on most people.

  • dime577@fedinsfw.appEnglish
    4·
    5 days ago

    While I don’t look for bulges, because I don’t swing that way, I do wear slim fit pants tight enough to show mine off for those who like to look. I’d wear skinny jeans if my thighs weren’t strangely muscular.

    • Lemmyseeplease@lemmy.worldOPEnglish
      1·
      5 days ago

      Hahaha. Humble brag on the thick thighs, lol. I’ve caught one woman who was seated at a desk taking in many healthy glances at my bulge. It was quite exciting.

      • dime577@fedinsfw.appEnglish
        2·
        4 days ago

        They’re a pain in the ass, tbh. I have to get a waist size higher just to be able to get pants over them without ripping them getting out of the car.

        I also suspect they’re a major contributing factor in my ED. I’m fine during foreplay, until I get in a position where I have to use them.

        But I agree, getting to see the admiration is super gratifying.

          • dime577@fedinsfw.appEnglish
            1·
            3 days ago

            I’m pretty well endowed, so there’s a battle over the blood supply.

            And that’s not really the humble brag people think it is. Being too big has some major downsides, like not being able to be intimate with my wife more frequently than every 3 days, or for longer than 15 minutes, because anything more will cause pain. And BJs are mostly not an option because jaw pain.

            • Lemmyseeplease@lemmy.worldOPEnglish
              1·
              3 days ago

              Goodness. I feel for ya. All these guys wanting a monster cock, but it has its drawbacks. I’ve got a decent dong, but not big enough to cause problems most of the time. Damn dude.

              P.S. Everybody is gonna want to see it now. lol