I’m what most people would consider a ‘guy’. I try to think beyond gender and I’m questioning that whole identity but that’s not relevant here.

My question, for anyone experienced in the matter is, ive heard so much about the wonders of the prostate, but find it incredibly difficult to enjoy anal stimulation. I enjoy the feeling of being stretched or full, or having a butt plug in the few times I’ve tried it. I kind of enjoyed the feeling of a strap-on, until it started moving, and then it just kinda made me feel like I needed to pee. But people go on and on about the wonders of prostate assisted orgasms, and I don’t get that at all. Sure, it’s a mildly pleasurable feeling in isolation, but every time I try to jerk off or have sex with something in my butt, the orgasm sucks. It’s basically ruined. It feels almost like when you stop right before cumming and just ejaculate without any orgasm sensation. This is so far from how I’ve heard people describe it that I have to wonder if I’m doing something wrong, but I’ve tried a few times with different methods but the same results. Whatever is in my butt feels kinda good on its own, but then once I try jerking off or having sex, it’s like its just stealing sensation away from my dick, and it ends up making my orgasm feel totally hollow and unsatisfying. I don’t get the full body tingles or waves of muscle contractions or feelings of sarisfaction I usually do, cum just shoots out and it’s over. Has anyone else found this or am I just weird?