Day 2 of trying to breath life into this sub and get the chatter going. How honest would you say you are about your kinks and fetishes? Is there something you’d never share with another soul or are you as open as can be?

I don’t think I have a single kink or fetish I haven’t been able to share with at least one person in some way, and if I’ve ever been asked I’ve always been open, whether I feel ill be judged or not.

Let’s try and keep this a judgement freezone too, if at all possible :)

  • MoltenFoundry@fedinsfw.appEnglish
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    11 days ago

    Yeah, my wife and i are very open with each other about kinks and desires even and especially if we don’t share something. Sometimes it’s a thing the other person is willing to try, sometimes it’s not.

    I’ve also been fairly insistent on checking if our close adult friends are interested in talking about sex or desire. An innocuous question here or there to gauge temperature, and drop it if it goes nowhere.

    Between mutual friends and my online friends i think i have 5-10 people i could about various kinds of kink, fetish, or sex with pn a semi regular basis.

    Other people’s desires are fascinating to me and i didn’t get any sex ed from home so i chat with friends.

    • CapOnBackwards@fedinsfw.appOPEnglish
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      11 days ago

      It may be a bit weird of me to think, but I don’t think enough adults talk enough about it. I know there’s stigma and judgement to be worried about and that’s why we don’t, but I do think as grown ass adults we should be able to talk to each other about things like this. Maybe it’s my open mindness, and everyone’s different I suppose it’s just good to have people you can talk to about.