I’ve been gooning for decades, but I’ve never seen this much choking in porn. It seems like most of the m/w videos eventually have the man’s hand on the woman’s neck. Usually it’s light, like he’s just checking a box.
When did choking become so popular?

Do you not see am the concern in doing something that cannot be done safely to someone?
Come up with whatever definition of violence you want. I’m not here to play semantics. If you choke someone, you are okay with the risk of killing them. That’s your risk profile, and you need to cop to it.
Edit: nice, love the block for pointing out the callous disregard for your partners safety. Remember it’s still murder if it’s an accident!
I’m sorry definitions of words are “playing semantics” to you.
Enjoy your day.