I’ve been gooning for decades, but I’ve never seen this much choking in porn. It seems like most of the m/w videos eventually have the man’s hand on the woman’s neck. Usually it’s light, like he’s just checking a box.
When did choking become so popular?
Regardless, it is a show of violence and a behaviour considered dangerous, as it actively endangers an individual. No amount of restrain or knowledge on it deems it as safe.
I have to respect those who view it differently but I will not uphold or defend it.
Violence is using force to harm. No “regardless”. Stop calling a consensual act that does no harm “violent” when it isn’t.