I was very attracted to a girl for years. Life has its ironies and we eventually dated for a while and after a few dates we got intimate. Between the thrill of the moment and nerves, it got to me and I struggled between not getting an erection, maintaning it and ejaculating on a slight of hand. She wasn’t pleased and was vocal about it. Bad start, worst ending, we were not together for long.

A few months later, I go out with another girl, an acquaintance of the ex. We went out for some movies, had a couple of meals together. Things moved along casually and one day what was just two people enjoying each other’s company became sexually charged. No previous signs or moves. Something simply went off and we were off to the races. And it happened again. I got nervous, I got frustrated, I got off before I could do anything about it. I cried. I honestly cried. Because of all the baggage I was carrying, because I did not want to pass as a selfish lover, because everything and anything.

She asked me what was wrong and I told her, openly. It had never been a subject between us until then so it was as good of a time as any other to tell her about my previous relation. Then how it had got to me things happening between us as it did. She listened, she got angry, she laughed, she cried a bit with me.

When I was leveled again, she stated she wasn’t going to hold it against me for getting overexcited; it was because of her and for her. She found it flattering. Oddly enticing and romantic. And that reset the mood. The pressure wasn’t gone but was very much off. We resumed activities and exercised it at professional sport levels. Energizer Bunny took notes for endurance.

It still lingers to this day.

  • pm_me_your_cum@fedinsfw.appEnglish
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    3 days ago

    I used to be so embarrassed by my pussy, I have long dangling labia, and it was not something I saw in porn early on, I thought it was not something guys found attractive. My first couple boyfriends never said anything about it, and I was always really embarrassed when they could see my pussy.

    Then I had another boyfriend, the first time he saw my pussy, his immediate reaction was “you have such a sexy pussy”. I was stunned and told him I’d always been ashamed of it. He asked why and I explained how dangly my labia was and how I thought guys didn’t like that, and he told me he loved that and that was what made it so sexy and how hot it looked. He then spent a while gently playing with my labia with his fingers. I don’t think anyone had paid so much attention to my pussy before then.