You can influence and still follow the law. And I am not talking about the shady stuff. Just tell people what you are doing and why are you doing it.

Can it connect to the VPNs simultaneously though? I don’t have it, but from what I see it can have configurations from multiple vpns but only one can be up at a time.

I am running tailscale to access my homelab and my exit node and I use wireguard protonVPN connection for that exit node. It involved messing with nftables, check this for more info. In theory, you could do the same with two wireguard connections. One connection in and one as an exit. Maybe easier solution would be having these on separate machines/vms. Having the exit vpn on the openWRT as default for all connections and then the connection in on a separate container or vm, and it would exit through the router. I am not sure but I think the wireguard then naturally exits trough the router (gateway).

I think you would be fine just installing the apps in TrueNAS. You can have snapshots, you can have remote backup with e.g. StorJ and updating is so easy. I was also doing stuff manually but eventually found out that it’s not worth it. And realistically I won’t stop using TrueNAS anytime soon.

WHAT?

Its your right of course. I think, though, that internet is often amplifying even the tiniest negative things while forgeting all good stuff (not limited to TrueNAS). I hate such culture, especially when the people (not you, in general) then go and use stuff like Twitter and similar. I mean how is it that people witch hunt this incredible free product they are getting, no strings attached and at the same time doom scroll tik tok or use WhatsApp or have windows or mac… You get the gist. I wish internet echo chambered also the positive stuff… I’ll stop rambling, sigh, sorry…

As started in other comments, TrueNAS is staying open source, only the build system is going closed source because some company was ripping them off and removing license. But the OS system itself can’t go closed source because of the gpl license.

So no need to move away if you like it.

I bough old FUJITSU Desktop (ESPRIMO D757/E90+) its ~2017 has 4 pcie. I bough cheap 3 ethernet NICs and 1 wi-fi on a maketplace/bazar and installed openWRT. Actually I installed proxmox and openWRT in a VM so that I can use that computer for other networking stuff like AdGuard, Tailscale, etc… Btw if you do this be careful which wifi you buy, not everything is easy to setup on OpenWRT.

You might want to check Ente Auth. Not sure how many checkboxes it ticks for you but I know people are quite happy with it.