Trying to start a terapy randomly feeling like the one of the wort advice personally. In theory it is best thing to argue about something but in practice probably it will devolve to something else.

1. If you are not know what are you doing probably wont accomplish anything.
2. For this to work both side need to be adult in their emotion and thinking but this is a very rare situation.
3. There is a chance if other side thinking you are being arrogant, manipulative or blaming other side.

In theory it is a basic and clever method but if you are dont know what are you doing it will be like landing a plane with written insturactions.

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I cant say for all turk cultures but in Turkey it is 9.