Very cool use case. Even though I hate it on the whole, I love to see what can be used from it like improving accessibility for neurodivergence.

Maybe downstream seaweed farms!

I wish the headline was more in line with the actual study. I’m glad at least the conclusion made it into the article:

“The Institute of Marine Research is clear that a significant increase in production in certain fjord systems could increase the risk of eutrophication locally, but that current production is well within nature’s carrying capacity. This provides a basis for strict, site-specific management, but does not document that current operations are destroying the fjords.”

Should be more like “fish farm growth must be strictly managed so that it doesn’t endanger the ecology of at risk fjords”

And we refuse to destroy elite pedophiles so that’s the society we live in I guess.

3d printable IUD! Who’s first?

That’s a very interesting use case. Can you tell me more about it? Sometimes I write emails and then ask llms to “rewrite this like an nt”… But I never imagined using it in dating.

Nah, boomers can die of unnatural causes too and that’s also okay… Get some wealth distribution in this capitalism…

Notepad ++ does that. It’s syntax highlighting and does great comparison of two nearly identical files. I’ve never used it to code though. I just use it for comparing text. But it is syntax highlighting.

Yeah, I miss that Lego set

Look, not everyone has the desire and capability to fight. I will say that I’ve had good success these last few years being vulnerable with other “woke” men and it’s been very freeing to share things I thought I experienced alone but to see that other men have gone through similar things.

I haven’t had a lot of success being vulnerable with women, but I’m getting to the point where that is a boundary for me. I’m not going to pursue friendships with people who can’t accept me for who I am and who reinforce toxic gender roles.

I’ve personally witnessed a lot of progress on this end and I’m excited to seeing more and being part of it when I can.

I’m glad you have a therapist, everyone needs someone they can share with.

Sorry you haven’t met someone who isn’t an asshole on this front.

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Yeah that’s what toxic masculinity is. People (men and women) hold toxic views of what a man should be, and punish men for staying from this ideal.

You were a victim of toxic masculinity when you shared your feelings and were then victimised because of it. The people you shared your feelings with were toxic assholes.

I felt the same fear of becoming someone else. When I first took my meds the person I found was the version of me that I missed. The version that’s happy because they accomplished something today. The version that isn’t feeling like a lazy loser because they weren’t able to do tasks that should have been easy.

You won’t lose yourself.

I initially thought the guy looking at the map was Greg, and the map was his life and he was just pausing to appreciate the moment eating dinner with friends and its contribution to his life’s story.

I actually didn’t believe you but it’s literally true. First post, immediate apology.

You don’t find and report bugs because the open source project is the highest bidder… You report to contribute to the project. Miss me with that free market mindset!

I love the idea. The math works out a bit different though. After 100 days it’s a 63% chance of getting caught so the fine would be 100/0.63= 159 million plus the additional fee. After 1 day the fine would be 1 million /0.01= 100 million plus the additional fee.

I love the actuarial precision of the fine so that all the probability of profit is priced in. Calculating that probability will be complex though because they could argue there is a 100% chance of getting caught after you caught them lol.

I mean it looks like you two are living by the fall asleep with the same energy playbook so good work! At least you’re using some good tag team logic. I love the collaboration.

That’s nonsense. Raising young kids is more work than most jobs, sure. But that’s not because it has equal work density. It’s an exhausting 20h/day 7d/week low-med effort task. A job is a 8-12h/day 5-6d/wk med-high energy task. Miss me with that 50/50 as soon as you come home crap. That’s a ridiculous goal. Not to mention you shouldn’t be wasting time making a mental accounting spreadsheet to figure out if your partner did enough work to deserve sex that day.

Ideally everyone should have put in the same effort into the day and both partners should have the same energy level going to bed. Some days you both fall asleep dead, knowing you’ll wake up in two hours with the baby crying. Some days you get to bed with a little extra energy and the baby is sleeping through the night and maybe you have to think of something to do with that extra energy.

It’s obvious you’ll have less sex with a tiny baby just from the exhaustion, but if you’re wasting energy resenting eachother because of low effort, unrealistic expectations, or withholding sex, then maybe y’all need to consider whether you need to work on your relationship or look for another one. Because some of what I’ve read in this thread on both sides sounds more exhausting than single parenting 50% of the time and working a full time job.

Help isn’t just used in the context of a person doing something and another person with a secondary contribution. It’s also the word used for two people working together on a common goal.

We’re helping eachother out.

You made a nice meal. Oh yes, but Steve and Joe were helping me cook. That doesn’t mean one was the cook, it means 3 people cooked to make a meal.

OP even says “when he doesn’t know how to help” implying all his chores are done and he still has energy so he gets advice on the next chore from his partner. Maybe it’s a chore his partner usually does, or maybe it’s a chore he didn’t notice needed to get done that she noticed. If she finishes her chores and has energy left she can ask for the same thing.

God you just want to see men as useless and women as heroes when we’re all just people in this world trying to make the best of things.