I prefer less hands, and I try not to drool. Drool has always been a turnoff for me, whether it’s me or the partner. And a blow job should be slow and sensual, and hands just speed that up. Work that whole collection of tongue, lips, and throat, taking your time. Facefucking doesn’t need hands, obviously.

As for position, just about anything goes. If it’s a pleasant gift, I want to be on my knees while the partner is in a chair or standing. If it’s sexual go time then yes, get me on my back. The head hanging off the bed doesn’t seem to work quite as well for me. For some reason I can’t take it all in like I can in other positions. I sometimes wonder if it has anything to do with what my dentist called a “narrow archway” which I think meant the fauces. I can definitely feel a little ‘pop’ as the cock pushes past some sort of structure when I’m upright, but I don’t feel it as much when I’m laying with head hanging.