• surewhynotlem@lemmy.world
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    1 day ago

    You aren’t. They’re adults and will decline if they want.

    I got a lot more confidence in myself as soon as I realized that my lack of confidence implied that everyone else were children in need of my protection, from me. Treat your adult friends like adults. They’ll be ok.