Day 13 (thanks for the reminder yesterday :))!

People in couples that watch porn, how do you and your partner use it in your relationship? A hidden taboo no one mentions? Sharing a phone screen while mutually masturbating in bed? On the big screen in the living room while you get down and dirty on the sofa?

  • txotter@fedinsfw.appEnglish
    5·
    6 days ago

    I generally watch porn in bed laying next to my husband while I masturbate, while he only watches porn (rarely) while we are having sex. Though he usually ends up not paying attention to it. He is absolutely fine with me watching porn as he understands our libidos are on different levels.

    • CapOnBackwards@fedinsfw.appOPEnglish
      2·
      6 days ago

      Porn gets a bad rep for a lot of very valid reasons, but being used like this for an imbalance of libidos where both people are happy with it I think is a good thing!

  • bendovertherainbow@fedinsfw.appEnglish
    2·
    7 days ago

    My wife is more into erotic romance books than porn, but I enjoy both. Books we rate and suggest to each other, porn I’ll maybe watch if I’m jerking off, which may be just porn, or might be vids we recorded, etc.

    Dont watch together very often at all, but not hidden either. If she were more into the video side we’d probably watch together.

  • Mandredge@fedinsfw.appEnglish
    1·
    6 days ago

    My wives and I will fairly regularly send each other porn when we find something good. It might depict a kink or setup or act we decide to try later, or provide some additional naunce into the things that turn us on, or just be a cool thing to share.