It’s fine. I’d consider it immoral to choose to bring a child into this world. Now, adopting one who’s already been born, so their existence isn’t your fault, that’s another story!
Have you tried to have just a regular conversation with women? I mean I seduced my wife by saying ‘Hi, how are you’ and listening to her. Yes, men and women are not the same but if we treat each other like humans, you can actually have a nice time together.
My wife tells me that’s what attracted her to me. She said I could hold a conversation and listen.
Which is also what attracted me to her. She could talk and had her own mind. “Treat each other like humans” seems like an easy ask but I apparently scooped up the best wife ever because nobody had done that before.
I am glad for you. In a time where everything needs to be flashy people forget the basics. Basic decency, understanding, empathy and cooking.
Seriously, I got her attention with the talk but got her hand with my cooking.
