• zarkanian@sh.itjust.works
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    1 month ago

    Yes, and that’s a good thing for you. But is it a good thing for the dog? I’ve known dogs with very abusive human companions.

    This is why I don’t understand why unconditional love is put up on a pedestal. The person that you love unconditionally could fall, hit their head, and become a completely different person who now treats you horribly. Should you still show them that same love?

    • Spacehooks@reddthat.com
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      1 month ago

      Good for the dog? No Are they bred that way intentionally? Yes, thats why dogs are man’s best friend. Loyal and forgiving. If humans wanted a friend with agency they’d get cat’s 😆.

      I agree with you. I never believed in unconditional love. In fact i think the idea ruins relationships because ppl stop trying to improve. “No just love me as I am im perfect la de da”.