• lime!@feddit.nu
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    2 months ago

    i’ve also been told this. i would much rather be nice and single than in a relationship hinging on me not being nice.

    also fake and gay

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        1 month ago

        it’s not. people think you are weird because they can’t relate and they can’t imagine anyone being content w/o a partner.

        desperation for validation and twisting yourself into knots to get it is way more attractive to people. but also why so many people who are attractive are deeply unhappy.

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    2 months ago

    The women you’re going to attract with that method are also likely to be jerks.

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      1 month ago

      some women is better than no women if you have had no women.

      then you go back to no women because you realize it’s better than jerks.

      and you have learned to love yourself and get yourself off better than any woman ever could.

      the circle of self acceptance and love. and gay.