“Does the past bother you?”

Every day.

“Does your partner’s sexual past bother you?”

Oh, no. Everyone’s got a past.

Past, present, or future, just communicate and we’re all good

Doesn’t bother me at all. My wife enjoyed a lot of men, and some women, I enjoyed a lot of women and no men.

We’ve since enjoyed women together, and hopefully some men at some point too.

Not to mention, neither one of us would be as good in bed without experience, so big plus there. Hell some of them should be thanked!

Not at all. A sexual victory by my partner is a win for the team. I can be envious if my friends have had awesome sex, but not my partners.

Does your partners sexual past bother you

Currently no, but if we’re speaking generally then yes a partners sexual past can potentially bother me. I have limits of what i like to engage in and i wouldn’t want to engage with someone who’s done a lot of kinks that i don’t like, even if they have no intention of doing them with me.

As for number of previous partners - i understand that "waiting til marriage " is an unreasonable expectation but i think most people want a partner who can exercise self control when it comes to it, i.e not sleeping with strangers a lot. Or at all.

I wouldn’t think so, but I’ve never really been in a relationship with someone with a particularly spicy past.

Generally, I’d like to think the past is in the past, so long as we’re secure on that point I’d like to think I wouldn’t let it affect me.