Day 2 of trying to breath life into this sub and get the chatter going. How honest would you say you are about your kinks and fetishes? Is there something you’d never share with another soul or are you as open as can be?
I don’t think I have a single kink or fetish I haven’t been able to share with at least one person in some way, and if I’ve ever been asked I’ve always been open, whether I feel ill be judged or not.
Let’s try and keep this a judgement freezone too, if at all possible :)
I’ve always kept everything about sexual matters to myself. In the last year though, at a friend’s wedding we were slightly intoxicated at some point, and a small group of us brought up ‘fetishes.’ We’ve always been touchy-feely with each other (and give lovely massages, one of the best after-effects of running cross country together is how free we are with those), but my friend was pretty accepting of it when I said I would be happy if the friend and friend’s spouse, AND the friend’s sibling and sibling’s spouse, all ran a train on me. It wasn’t ever in the cards, none of them were those sort of folks, but the friend didn’t suddenly stop wanting me to give a massage to any of those four when we gather for christmas and such, or even show disgust. I now have to rethink how close I’ve kept my kinks all this time >:(